Masturbating next to sleeping husband
A Biblical Approach to Masturbation
“My mother caught me!” lamented George Costanza, in an episode of the TV show Seinfeld. Of course, he was referring to being caught masturbating. That episode famously brought to light a subject that remains difficult to talk about. Whether you are young or old, male or female, married or single, you likely have some experience with masturbation. Your experience may be one of shame and embarrassment over your habit of masturbation – a habit you have fought to overcome. You may be a single person who uses masturbation as a way to experience sexual release, or a married person who feels guilty for hiding your habit from your spouse. Does masturbation have a place in the life of Jesus’ followers?
What does the Bible say?
If we listen carefully to what the bible says, we will find that when it comes specifically to the topic of masturbation…God is silent. (Genesis 38:8-10 has been cited as a biblical argument against masturbation; however, the context makes it clear that God was punishing Onan not for masturbation, but for failing to fulfill his obligation to produce an heir for his brother.) That’s right – you could read
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Abstract
The purpose of our study is to describe 4 cases of sexsomnia, a form of parasomnia characterised by sexual behaviour during sleep.
MethodsClinical history and video-polysomnography recordings from patients diagnosed with sexsomnia in the Multidisciplinary Sleep Unit at Hospital Clínic in Barcelona.
ResultsConclusionsSexsomnia occurs in young adults and is characterised by masturbation and inappropriate attempts at achieving sexual intercourse followed by total amnesia of the events. It can be associated with other parasomnias such as sleepwalking and confusional arousals. Other sleep disorders, including doze apnoea and periodic leg movement disorder, may trigger episodes of sexsomnia.
Keywords:
Sexsomnia
Parasomnia
Masturbation
Intercourse
Amnesia and sleep
Resumen
El objetivo de nuestro trabajo es describir 4 casos de sexsomnia, una parasomnia caracterizada por conductas sexuales durante el sueño.
MétodoHistoria clínica y registro videopolisomnográfico d
My husband masturbates in bed while I'm asleep, and won't have sex with me. What's going on?
I think my husband has a problem with porn and masturbation. Maybe I'm exaggerating and his daily habit is normal, but I'm unsure.
The problem started on our honeymoon. He said he couldn't be intimate with me because he had been masturbating so much. It broke my heart. I found myself in a very romantic suite crying myself to sleep because the one thing the honeymoon is about (at least in my head) is to be intimate with your spouse, and that didn't happen.
Now that I know about how often he masturbates, I can't forget it. I also recently learned that he does it next to me when I am asleep. I have talked about it with him, but he often gets upset and defensive when I do.
He said it's my fault for feeling this way about the situation, and I don't have to. We even went to therapy for this and only after six months of that did he apologize, saying he wished our honeymoon had been different.
But this issue keeps happening and I feel our intimacy is severely affected. He doesn't make the effort to be with me anymore. We have sex probably once every two week Q: I’m a heavy sleeper, and my wife knows that, but not so heavy that I don’t wake up when she periodically masturbates next to me and has the bed shaking pretty hard. She doesn’t know this wakes me. How do I handle this? Do I offer a hand (or a dick) the next time? Talk to her when she’s not having her moment and ask if she feels like our sex life is lacking? Or just let it go and continue to pretend that I’m still asleep when this happens? Our sex life seems healthy to me otherwise. —Nocturnal Incidents That Erupt Necessitate Inquiries To Elucidate A: The wife masturbating in the middle of the night isn’t by itself evidence your sex life is lacking, NITENITE. She’s most likely waking up horny at 3 AM and rubbing one out to get back to sleep. You can and should tell her over breakfast—with a loving and supportive smile on your face—that you sometimes wake up when she’s masturbating, and that you’re happy to help her out. But if all your wife wants and/or needs at 3 AM is a quick orgasm, she may not be interested in a full-blown sex session. And if “helping her out” means she’s obligated to get you off before she can go back to sleep, NITENITE, d There are treatment options available, and they center on what your healthcare provider determines to be the underlying cause. “The first step is to make sure you are talking to your doctor about all the symptoms you are experiencing,” Sullivan says. “The doctor can help to develop a course of action to understand triggers.” If your doctor suspects there’s an underlying sleep disorder, they will likely suggest a recorded sleep study, according to 2021 research. From there, they can determine if there’s a medical issue that’s disrupting your sleep and causing sexsomnia. They can then focus your treatment plan there. For instance, diagnosing and treating underlying sleep apnea with a continuous positive airway pressure (CPAP) device could help minimize or completely end sexsomnia episodes, according to the Cleveland Clinic. Seeking a diagnosis and treatment is important as sexsomnia can be risky to those you live with since you’re not in control of your actions. “A doctor may encourage patients to take steps to ensure the safety of the patient and the patient’s partner while they work to find a resolution
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